Glimpse into a Serendipitous Day ✨

Just a spontaneous reflection from bhartee ; 

~ In the cozy embrace of December, I sit in my office savoring the comforting badam milk crafted by mum-mummiya. The rain dances outside, and the nostalgic tunes of 90's Bollywood songs set the perfect backdrop. Currently, Anuradha Paudwal's soulful rendition of "Zindagi mein jab tumhare gumm nahi" fills the air.🪷

                      • As a part of All India Radio for several months now, I've had the privilege of crossing paths with diverse individuals from various walks of life. Today, I had the pleasure of conversing with seasoned radio veterans who generously shared their tales from the past. Reflecting on the evolution of work culture over time, I marvel at the stark differences and how they navigated everything with minimal resources.

~ It's true that every person we encounter imparts valuable lessons. Initially, my enthusiasm for my work here was lacking, but now I appreciate the serendipity that led me to this place. Meeting individuals from a different generation, older and remarkably talented, has been a transformative experience. There's a beauty in spending time with the elderly, as their stories and experiences have the power to bring immense joy. 🫶🏻

"Echoes of Missed Chances"

Hello readers , I welcome y'all to my inaugural voyage into the world of words , 

 🥂 to my maiden poem... 

   In this life, countless chances came my way, 

 Yet in denial, I let them slip, dismay.

        Regrets would haunt, my choices in review, 

 Have you, too, faced this melancholy hue?

     What remedy to mend the past's cruel rhyme,

  For in my mind, these regrets chime.

       Gone are the moments I did forsake, 

 Now, I ponder what those chances could make.

    But time, relentless, marches on its race,

  Leaving me to ponder in its wake. 

     Regrets, they linger, yet still, I find, 

 To learn, to grow, the heart and soul combined.✍🏼

Chromatic farewells 🍂

" A beautiful mess of emotions that adds color to the canvas of life "

Hey there, fellow travelers of life! 

You'all must have been there –  in that bittersweet moment when you have to bid adieu to someone or something. 

Yeppp, you guessed it right , I'am  talking about goodbyes – those sometimes tear-jerking, sometimes relief-inducing, and always memorable moments that life throws our way.

Now, I don't know about you people , but goodbyes always hit me right in the feels, there's something oddly emotional about these farewells , duh!!! 🫤

{ Bhartee (me) : i have always been the kind of person who has been very emotional in relationships. I know that I have a limited circle , but I have given a lot of importance to all of them present in it . And saying goodbye during these times is perhaps, a bit more difficult thing for people like me.}

But guys if you look at it, goodbyes aren't just about sadness. They're like the punctuation marks in the story of our lives aren't they 🤷🏻‍♀️

I mean, isn't it fascinating how one chapter closing opens the door to a whole new adventure???  

Let's be real, though...🙇🏻‍♀️They aren't always easy. In fact, they can be downright tough. But they're a natural part of our journey.  Just think about it – if we never said good-byes,we'd never welcome anything new into our lives, no new friendships, no new experiences, and definitely no new flavors of ice cream to try!!! (writer giggles)

And you know what These Goodbyes teach us that life isn't a static painting; it's a vibrant, ever-changing masterpiece. 

So the next time you find yourself waving farewell, don't just focus on the tears. Think about the memories you've made, the lessons you've learned, and the exciting possibilities that lie ahead.

And as I bring this journey to a close, I would like to leave you with these words..."

Cheers to new beginnings and fond memories , 💌 

Dear readers, don't forget to keep your heart open for the new hellos that are waiting just around the corner 🫶🏻. 

a romantic ritual 💌🪷

The connection beyond screens 🤌🏻

So, the act of writing letters to each other began a few years ago.🪷

                     [ Isn't it a wonderful thing ??? ]

In today's fast-paced digital era, where people can instantly message each other to convey their thoughts and communicate, we sometimes opt to express ourselves through heartfelt letters.

✍🏼 This art of writing love letters may appear to be a quaint and old-fashioned gesture, but we find true joy in it. Observing the smile on the recipient's face as they unfold our letter, and especially as they read through it (since we play the roles of each other's postmasters too , we get to witness this also) it's actually an incredibly beautiful feeling. The meticulous care with which the other person has crafted those words that can deeply touch the innermost recesses of our hearts is truly remarkable.

 💌 These letters are more than mere ink on paper; they often capture raw and unfiltered emotions. They serve as heartfelt expressions that can spin a narrative of romance, yearning, and a connection unlike any other.

{ These handwritten letters transform into timeless keepsakes that can be cherished for years to come. Whether safely stored in a drawer or proudly displayed on a wall, a love letter acts as a constant reminder of the special bond shared between two individuals. And undoubtedly, they stand as a symbol of love that remains engraved in our hearts for eternity }

💗 Eagerly waiting for my postmaster to bring me another

 one >>>

Take time to process.....

•  A HUGE WALL INSIDE MY HEART  : 

The feeling of betrayal is one of the worst things a person can experience. It is a feeling of being let down, of being disappointed by someone you thought you could trust. It's the feeling of being stabbed in the back by someone you thought was on your side. Betrayal shatters the trust that is at the heart of any relationship, and it can take years to rebuild that trust once it has been broken.

 It starts with small lies, little things that you might not even notice at first. But over time, those lies add up, and the person who you thought you knew begins to show their true colors. And when the truth finally comes out, it's like a punch in the gut. You feel sick, and you wonder how you could have been so blind.

Healing from betrayal is a journey, not a destination. It takes time, patience, and a willingness to let go of the hurt and pain. It's about learning to trust again, both in yourself and in others. It's about finding the strength to forgive, even when it feels impossible. 

Trust denied :

It can be a painful and challenging experience. Trust is an essential ingredient in any relationship, be it personal or professional. It is the foundation upon which we build our connections with others, and it forms the bedrock of our sense of security and safety. However, what happens when trust is denied? When we are unable to trust those around us, it can be a deeply unsettling and painful experience that can leave us feeling alone, vulnerable, and unsupported.

• SAME OLD COLORED , STAINED GLASSES: 

BETRAYAL ~ 

• Betrayal is one of the most devastating experiences a person can endure. Whether it comes in the form of deception, or broken promises, betrayal can shatter our trust in others and leave us feeling alone and isolated. However, healing from betrayal is possible.

It's essential to give yourself permission to feel whatever you're feeling, whether it's anger, sadness, or confusion. Bottling up your emotions or denying them can prolong the healing process and make it more challenging to move forward. Instead, allow yourself to feel your emotions fully and express them in healthy ways, such as talking to a trusted friend or therapist or engaging in creative activities like writing or art. Healing from a  betrayal takes time. It's essential to give yourself the space and time you need to process what has happened fully. This may involve taking a break from the relationship or situation that caused the betrayal ,there will be ups and downs along the way. It's okay to take breaks and come back to the healing process when you feel ready.

 

• LOOKING THINGS WITH A FRESH OUTLOOK :

FORGIVENESS ~  

Forgiveness is an essential part of healing from betrayal, but it doesn't mean forgetting what has happened. Forgiveness involves releasing the anger and resentment you may be holding onto and moving forward with a sense of compassion and understanding. However, it's important to set healthy boundaries and protect yourself from further harm. Forgiveness doesn't mean allowing the person who betrayed you to continue to hurt you or placing yourself in a vulnerable position. 

Projecting my fears and experiences... 🌠

The truth is, we won't always end up with those we feel something deep and meaningful with . Some chapters of our lives are full and dizzying in the best way - with concrete endings and concrete closure. But some chapters end quickly, sometimes in the middle of the page,sometimes before we are even ready .

We simply cannot control what comes to fruition in our lives. We cannot control how long someone chooses to stay. At the end of the day , all we can do is learn from the endings . 

And , all we can do is embrace the fact that for a moment in time, we felt something beautiful. For a moment in time , we felt something rare. 🤍

An Old soul trapped in a Millennial's Body 👀

• Is your music library full of songs that were released      decades before you were born???

• Do you feel like an outcast when your friends go out    

  clubbing???

• Do you have a hard time dating because you don’t            understand weird millennial dating habits like                    ghosting???

If you answered with a yes to all these questions, congratulations, my friend, you’re an old-soul... 🙃 

Many people feel like they are an "old soul trapped in a millennial's body," meaning that they have an appreciation for the past, a different outlook on life, and a desire for more meaningful connections than what modern society seems to offer.

Being an old soul means that you feel a connection to a bygone era. You may feel like you were born in the wrong time period or that you would have fit in better in a different era. You might have a fascination with history, literature, or art that is no longer valued in today's world. You may find yourself drawn to the simpler things in life, such as spending time outdoors, reading books, or enjoying quiet moments with loved ones.

But being an old soul in a millennial's body can also be challenging. You may feel like you don't quite fit in with your peers, who are more focused on social media, technology, and material possessions. You may struggle to connect with others on a deeper level, as many people seem more interested in surface-level interactions than in forming meaningful relationships.

However, there are ways to embrace your old soul nature and find a sense of belonging in today's world. Here are a few tips:

🤝🏻Connect with like-minded people: Connecting with others who share your passions can help you feel less isolated and more understood.

🕊️Take time to unplug: Take time to disconnect from your devices and spend time in nature, meditating, or engaging in other activities that allow you to recharge and connect with yourself.

💃Embrace your uniqueness: Don't try to fit in with the crowd if it doesn't feel authentic to you. Embrace your old soul nature and be proud of who you are. 

🫂 Focus on relationships: Instead of trying to make a lot of superficial connections, focus on building deeper relationships with a few people who share your values and interests. 

Being an old soul trapped in a millennial's body can be challenging, but it can also be a gift. 🙌🏻

By embracing your unique perspective and connecting with others who share your passions, you can create a fulfilling and meaningful life that honors your old soul nature.